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Like a lot of people my Mum wrote diaries. After she died we found 30 years worth! I thought they might have the answers to life’s big questions - they didn’t! She wrote simple, mundane, often funny, one liners about her everyday life: January 17th 1998, “The dog crapped all over the carpet!”. Her diaries made me think about other women and how they mange their everyday lives too. This hatched an idea: to interview 100 women and see what would happen. There were many reasons for this; a) I’m very curious, b) am I getting the best out of my life? and c) now Mum was gone, where was I going to get my life wisdom from? I came up with a list of questions loosely based on an ordinary, everyday conversation; How are you? How’s the kids, What’s the weather like today? I began collecting conversations. My discovery; a treasure chest of insight, humour and wise words. It seemed selfish to keep it all to myself so I started to blog and eventually wrote my first book. Collecting Conversations.

I never intended only talking to women so once I’d got my menopause out of the way I turned my focus to men. Lockdown honed me in. 100 men interviewed, three milliion words transcribed and my next book crystallised. ‘Men Talk’ is out now! Below are extracts from 200 interviews with both men and women…

All Ages
  • 20 Somethings
  • 30 Somethings
  • 40 Somethings
  • 50 Somethings
  • 60 Somethings
  • 70 Somethings
  • 80 Somethings
  • 90 Somethings
The People
  • men
  • women
 I always love sharing my grumpiness
I always love sharing my grumpiness

Ian 56, married with 2 kids from London. Works in magazines as a creative director.


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50 SomethingsSam BunchSeptember 16, 2018menComment
I thought I understood about life before I had children - then my son was born
I thought I understood about life before I had children - then my son was born

Phil 49. Married, with two children from Hertfordshire. Managing Director for an events company.

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40 SomethingsSam BunchSeptember 9, 2018men Comments
That’s what I love about life
That’s what I love about life

Tina 55. Married. 5 children, 1 grandchild. Meditation teacher.

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50 SomethingsSam BunchNovember 5, 2017womenComment
Be bold, do stuff.
Be bold, do stuff.

Hazel, 49. Single mum of three. Croydon born of Jamaican heritage.

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40 SomethingsSam BunchOctober 29, 2017womenComment
It’s the small things - give people your time. 
It’s the small things - give people your time. 

Terrie 50, from South London. She lives with her long term partner. They have two children.

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50 SomethingsSam BunchOctober 15, 2017womenComment
I’ve had a lot of men touch my arse and I really don’t like it!
I’ve had a lot of men touch my arse and I really don’t like it!

Sandra 45 divorced. Four children, works part time as a midday meal supervisor.

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40 SomethingsSam BunchOctober 8, 2017womenComment
He was sent to prison not long after we met
He was sent to prison not long after we met

Emily 33 from Ipswich. Married with three children. Works part time as teaching assistant in a local primary school.

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30 SomethingsSam BunchSeptember 25, 2017womenComment
Keep Ducking!
Keep Ducking!

Kath 61. Born in London raised in Lancashire. Married. Retired. Mum and grandma.

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60 SomethingsSam BunchSeptember 17, 2017womenComment
30 years a slave!
30 years a slave!

Pam 55. From London.Married with four children. Mum and Printer.

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50 SomethingsSam BunchSeptember 10, 2017womenComment
I’ve never felt dissatisfied about who I am
I’ve never felt dissatisfied about who I am

Dolly 93 Born in Trinidad form Indian-African descent. A widowed, mum and grandmother. She lives in South London.

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90 SomethingsSam BunchAugust 21, 2017womenComment
He liked the girls and the fist!
He liked the girls and the fist!

Barbara 69 from London. Married twice. 3 grown up children and 6 grandchildren.

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60 SomethingsSam BunchAugust 13, 2017womenComment
The size of a man's feet is important, adequately large!
The size of a man's feet is important, adequately large!

Natalie 46. Architect. Married with two children from London.

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40 SomethingsSam BunchAugust 6, 2017womenComment
Time over again I would have allowed toy guns in the house
Time over again I would have allowed toy guns in the house

Sonia 56 from Croydon. Lives with her partner and their three grown up children. Works part time in the voluntary sector.

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50 SomethingsSam BunchJuly 30, 2017womenComment
To love and be loved is what I miss
To love and be loved is what I miss

Glenda 61. Retired headmistress. Widowed. Two grown up children.

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60 SomethingsSam BunchJuly 23, 2017Comment
People attribute having a disability to having a personality disorder
People attribute having a disability to having a personality disorder

Sian 54. Married, no kids. Works for herself as a complimentary therapist.

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50 SomethingsSam BunchJune 25, 2017womenComment
I’m proud of life, I’m in awe
I’m proud of life, I’m in awe

Anne 38. From Lancashire, lives in London. Married with three children. Works in fashion industry.

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30 SomethingsSam BunchJune 18, 2017womenComment
I’m running away from myself
I’m running away from myself

Lydia 55 divorced. Lives in London with her two children and works as a teaching assistant.

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50 SomethingsSam BunchJune 11, 2017womenComment
All everyone really wants is to be loved and to be peaceful. 
All everyone really wants is to be loved and to be peaceful. 

Carol 67, an Artist from Trinidad. Mum to four. Grandmother of two. Widowed since her forties. She’s lives in London.

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60 SomethingsSam BunchJune 4, 2017womenComment
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